digital wellbeing

I cut my screen time by 80% (without buying a “dumb phone”)

From eight hours a day to under two hours. Here is how I turned my smartphone into a “dumb phone” using specific apps and psychology-based friction.

The visual reset (launcher hack)

Default home screens are built to hook you. I tried text-only launchers and pure monochrome, but total minimalism made me slower (three authenticator apps look identical without icons).

The balance: a minimalist launcher (Before Launcher) with black-and-white icons so the home screen is boring by design, but still usable.

The “marshmallow” problem

Built-in limits like Screen Time failed me because of the “add 15 minutes” button. It is the digital marshmallow test: most of us cave.

Friction beats willpower

I switched to ScreenZen. When I tap YouTube, it asks, “Is this important?” and makes me wait 60 seconds. The urge to doom-scroll usually dies before the timer finishes.

  • Entry cost: enforced delay before an app opens.
  • Exit plan: 5-minute caps that auto-close the app.

The notification cull

I tried blocking everything and became paranoid. Now I whitelist three categories only:

  • Humans: messaging apps.
  • Money: banking alerts.
  • Time: calendar reminders.

News, social, and games stay silent by default.

The “semi-productive” trap

Doom-scrolling the news felt adult but produced the same anxiety spiral as social media. I added ScreenZen friction to news apps and blocked sites in my browser. I have not missed them.

Seeing it in action

Visualising the delays and launcher layout helps. The walkthrough below shows exactly how the friction works.

Video ID is editable via data-video-id or videos.wellbeing.id in site-config.js.

Key takeaways

  • Do not buy a burner phone - dumb down the one you have.
  • Kill the colour: monochrome icons reduce impulse taps.
  • Add friction, not blocks: delays break the dopamine loop.
  • Whitelist humans, money, and time; silence everything else.
  • News doom-scrolls count as doom-scrolls - treat them the same.